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Saturday, 30 May 2009

I, Me and Her

Me : I've got to tell her!
Soliloquy : No, Shruti, you can't! She likes him, they're making plans for the future! She'll hate you forever!
Me : But I have a really bad feeling 'bout this person. Something feels off! I'm her friend, she values my opinions, doesn't she? She won't mind. RIGHT?
Soliloquy : But at the moment, he's her life. She's not going to be very pleased if you ruin her life.
Me : BUT, somethings gotta' give! So not her. So not worth her. I'm not feeling good about this! I'll tell her!
Soliloquy : No, no. Do you want her in your life forever? Or however friendships last?
Me : IF we're friends, she won't grudge me for this, right? Her parents will freak! Long time plans! I don't all of this to blow up in her face!
Soliloquy : Love, or whatever it is doesn't make you see sense, you know that from experience, don't you. Let it. People need to learn. It's how they grow.
Me : But, I don't want her to get hurt!
Soliloquy : GROWTH. You can be there for her, if and when it does.
For now, let it go.


SHOULD I?

9 comments:

Jinxed Pixie said...

yes, you should!
she's your friend, right?
she won't grudge, she really really won't...
...that is if she's your true friend.


or so i believe...

...and as a personal advice, i'd advice you to not take my advice seriously...
you see?

sawan said...

You Should. Be with her when she need you. She might scold you in future for not warning her, but trust me - if you do it now, you might lose her for ever. You might even loose the chance to protect her. So observe wuts happening and mute urself at the moment. guide her so tht she dsnt fall into traps [if u know wut i mean] but never be diect in ur words. anything u say against him cud go against u.

Express said...

Oh you should,
how and when are two VERY important questions though :)

strength and luck
:)

Shrutilaya said...

@ Jinxie - I really needed to be MORE confused now. = \

@ Sawan - Yeah, you make a lot of sense.

@ Express - You do too. Oh god. I'm confused again.

Dr@m@Queen said...

i have done this im her friend she valuse my opinions ill tell her abt his player shit...turns out u lose out...i lost out on a friendship of 12 years..because her bf hit on me when she wasnt around...and guess what now theyve been together for 2 years...trust me u dont wanna feel that...its not under ur control..her love life is her problem not urs
ok?

Shrutilaya said...

*nods*

See, YOU make sense.

deluded said...

errr

I wanted to say stuff

but dramaqweeeeeen has said it all

Ki said...

Listen to Sawan Layu. :)

Shrutilaya said...

I think I'm just going to try to make her realize that all these distant plans of kids and marriage can be thought off LATER